Forced Marriage

 Tradition, is the transmission of customs or beliefs from generation to generation, or the fact of being passed on in this way. It also a way to pass the things that old people does. 

But because we always listen to what old

people say, and don’t have our own idea on things,  some unreasonable or even harmful traditions can  be passed on. There’s two types of harmful tradition. The 1st one is physical hurt and the 2nd one is psychological hurt. For example, banding feet. Banding feet is a very popular tradition during 10th century in ancient China. But Forced marriage is a psychological and physical hurt. Forced marriage is male and female forced to get marriage.  

In my opinion forced marriage in a way to control and man and woman’s freedom and it really gives people bad memories on it. Every body have their on chance and right to choose do or not to do  something. I think we all still have a question is that, why forced marriage gives people physical hurt? There’s some instance that prove that.

For example, I always see men hurt women in many Indian movie. And If the women don’t want to marriage the men, her parent will scold or hit the women. 

I think, Forced marriage is not a good things to spread out in society. Because it not a good thing to do and to teach others. And if more and more people follow this tradition, the civilization will no longer continuing developed. Like in ancient China, there’s a sentence cold “(门当户对)mendanghudui” it means 2 rich family’s children will be together, because the 2 family matched. I  think you still have a question. Why marriage are related to money and  interest? Because, some of the old people care about their money more than their children. 

This is only one of the example, there’s more things that is unreasonable.

After all, don’t you think forced marriage is horrible? I do. Every one wants to have freedom so now there’s some agency that can help those people. The people can get help by call the helpline and ask for help. Like in China, If a forced marriage happens to you, you can go to court and apply for an appeal, it works because in China forced marriage is illegal.  

 Chinese Marriage Law ⬆️

Plus, nowadays days most of the people have their own ideology so forced marriage are less than before.  

There’s a very good sentence below the helpline poster:

“Forcing some one marriage isn’t always physicals, but it always against  the laws.”